E-motional !!!-2
Looking at the response from my dearies about the softer side of me ,now am inspired and motivated to come out more with more such self encounters ...
And now i feel what i was thinking earlier holds good when people are indifferent to you ! Its really better to be on your own not paying any heed to anyone especially when people are not bothered about you! If they are not affected by your presence better be absent in such a situation! I know am being rude and self centered? But this behavior will succeed only when good number of chances are given to those who are being indifferent to you! A person with a cheerful mood and in most cases social will always give chance(s) to people and adjust to everyone's mood and behavior(Am quite a bit indicating here).
There is a saying in Kannada "Ahankarakke Udaseenave Maddu" (this means Being indifferent is the only remedy for egotism) (This translation is for my sweet non kannadiga fren and who always appreciates my writing ..thank you dearie)..Well there are instances where people act really funny i do not know is it that they are egotist or they are quite glum..Apart from the spelling difference of these two words there is a narrow line between them but ultimate behavior reflected outside is the same..
I was always told by my Mom that give everyone good chances don't ever jump to conclusion wait and be clam you never know what the others may be undergoing ..but yes if the behavior is still the same all the time better back off ,take a break ,may be that they don't enjoy your company. Even you are hurt with someone's no response to you ,so its better for both..We unnecessarily start thinking what bad have we done for what went wrong?This is quite difficult and a brain straining task ..but at what cost? better stop thinking about what happened or why people act that way..be on your own and i guess no one is jobless all are busy rather very busy in their own world
So what do you guys say? Agree with me ????? Be indifferent :)
And now i feel what i was thinking earlier holds good when people are indifferent to you ! Its really better to be on your own not paying any heed to anyone especially when people are not bothered about you! If they are not affected by your presence better be absent in such a situation! I know am being rude and self centered? But this behavior will succeed only when good number of chances are given to those who are being indifferent to you! A person with a cheerful mood and in most cases social will always give chance(s) to people and adjust to everyone's mood and behavior(Am quite a bit indicating here).
There is a saying in Kannada "Ahankarakke Udaseenave Maddu" (this means Being indifferent is the only remedy for egotism) (This translation is for my sweet non kannadiga fren and who always appreciates my writing ..thank you dearie)..Well there are instances where people act really funny i do not know is it that they are egotist or they are quite glum..Apart from the spelling difference of these two words there is a narrow line between them but ultimate behavior reflected outside is the same..
I was always told by my Mom that give everyone good chances don't ever jump to conclusion wait and be clam you never know what the others may be undergoing ..but yes if the behavior is still the same all the time better back off ,take a break ,may be that they don't enjoy your company. Even you are hurt with someone's no response to you ,so its better for both..We unnecessarily start thinking what bad have we done for what went wrong?This is quite difficult and a brain straining task ..but at what cost? better stop thinking about what happened or why people act that way..be on your own and i guess no one is jobless all are busy rather very busy in their own world
So what do you guys say? Agree with me ????? Be indifferent :)
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